First and foremost – be yourself and have fun
Leave any drama at the gate – do no bring personal issues into the group setting
Consent is always priority- do not touch or interact sexually or join in any scenes BDSM or sexual without explicit permission. No is always a no
It is strongly encouraged if playing with new partners or even ones you have already played with, negotiate the scene so everyone is on the same page
If you have a different set of safe words, please let the management or red bands know so we can look out for everyone’s safety
Safety is key. If there is anything you want to do or try, please ask and learn from more experienced individuals
Do not try anything you are uncomfortable with that could jeopardize the safety of others
There are no sexual acts inside the clubhouse, pool or spa. This includes oral, fingers and toys being used. Sex is allowed in all other areas within the club fenced in space including the two playrooms next to the common area
Alcohol is allowed but you strongly encouraged not to drink or drink heavily prior to doing a scene. If you are seen being too intoxicated during a scene you will be asked to stop immediately. If you choose to not listen to the management team or a red band, you will be removed from the group
There are no illegal or recreational drugs allowed on the property
Alcohol or drinks may be put in the common refrigerators in the club house for access throughout the party
Please treat all the equipment with respect
Do not touch member’s toys without permission from the owner
Please wipe down all equipment after use and clean up after yourselves
Do not interrupt any scene. If you have questions about a scene or type of play, speak to the individual or individuals involved before or after the sce
If you are doing any type of rope suspension speak to a management member prior. Please have experience, suspensions are extremely dangerous and should not be attempted by inexperienced individual
Do not harass members; we are not a hook up group. If something good happens then that is great. If not, do not be a creeper. Everyone has the right to be themselves and explore sexually in BDSM and kink
ASK about experience levels, any interactions with other groups, and interests on what type of play the individual or couple wants to try or explore
Lastly there might be scenes that you are uncomfortable watching. These scenes are negotiated prior to individuals starting them. If this is the case, please just remove yourself from the area where the scene is taking place